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He Grew Up with a Single Mother in Hardship – Now He’s the Commanding Linebacker Leading the Eagles’ Defense

He Grew Up with a Single Mother in Hardship – Now He’s the Commanding Linebacker Leading the Eagles’ Defense

While many players ran onto the field with their fathers watching from the stands, Nakobe Dean always had one quiet, unwavering presence behind him – his mother, Neketta Dean. A former military woman turned community advocate in Mississippi, she raised three children on her own, without ever asking for praise.

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Dean didn’t grow up with much – but he was raised with purpose. His mother taught him: “You have a responsibility to your family and to your community.” As a kid, Nakobe volunteered alongside her at VA hospitals and local outreach programs – and he carried that spirit with him onto the football field.

He quickly became a defensive star at Georgia, leading the NCAA in tackles-for-loss and winning the 2021 Butkus Award as the nation's top linebacker. But when the 2022 NFL Draft came, injury concerns made many teams pass on him – until the Eagles took a chance in the third round.

Dean has repaid that faith tenfold. In just his second season, with injuries depleting Philly’s defense, Dean was handed the keys – stepping in as the starting middle linebacker, reading offenses, making adjustments, and becoming the first line of leadership.

“I always think of my mom – she never complained, even when it was just her raising us. Every time I step on the field, I just want her to be proud of me.”

Dean isn’t the loudest voice in the locker room – but he’s a tone-setter. His teammates respect him not for speeches, but for how he shows up every day and leads by example.

From a childhood shaped by a strong, single mother – to a defensive captain in the heart of Philadelphia – Nakobe Dean is living proof that quiet beginnings can still lead to thunderous legacies.

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